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Hot and cold
Everything one day, nothing the next.
Swinging between intense attention and distance creates uncertainty. Uncertainty hooks harder than steady attention.
The signs
- /Big messages, then unexplained silence
- /You spend your time decoding their mood
Your move
Match their average investment, not their peaks. You don't chase the warm phase.
Example
"Good to hear from you. Busy week here, let's plan something later."
Mini quiz
Which message illustrates "Hot and cold"?